Thank you for this. My experience was different from yours, but I still have a lot of regret about things I did years ago. Your advice on griefwork ties in nicely with a book I just finished reading, "Will I Ever Be Good Enough?" which is about recovering from narcissistic mothers. The author kept talking about how much her clients want to skip the griefwork stage, but how vital it is.
Thank you for this. My experience was different from yours, but I still have a lot of regret about things I did years ago. Your advice on griefwork ties in nicely with a book I just finished reading, "Will I Ever Be Good Enough?" which is about recovering from narcissistic mothers. The author kept talking about how much her clients want to skip the griefwork stage, but how vital it is.